The Four Man Plan Adventure

I stumbled upon and read the book, The Four Man Plan by Cindy Lu and I instantly loved it.  Some of the advice sounded absurd, but I wanted to give it a solid shot.  Essentially, the idea is to date multiple different men at the same time so that you can stack them up against each other so that you can have more of an objective judgement of these men.  She also summarizes this in her YouTube material.  Despite what it sounds like to date multiple men at a time, the idea is not to be promiscuous and to actually hold off on sex as long as possible and not to be sexual active with more than one man at a time (once you have sex with someone new, you must say goodbye to the last – you’re not holding onto a string of lovers).

My four man plan journey really helped me get to know myself better, although initially I did it to find someone who I could be in a long-term relationship with.  Follow me through this journey:

  1. The Four Man Plan
  2. The Four Man Plan: Week 1
  3. The Four Man Plan: Week 2
  4. The Four Man Plan: Week 3
  5. Dating Lesson: Wearing Someone Else’s Shoes to Find Forgiveness
  6. The Four Man Plan: Week 4
  7. The Four Man Plan: Week 5
  8. The Tantalising Dog Walker
  9. The Four Man Plan: Week 6
  10. The Four Man Plan: Week 7
  11. The Four Man Plan: Week 8
  12. Sensible Man
  13. The Four Man Plan: Week 9
  14. The Four Man Plan: Week 10
  15. The Reminiscing of Past Lovers
  16. Pie Guy vs. Nerd
  17. A Crash Course in Dating
  18. The Four Man Plan: Week 11
  19. The Four Man Plan: Week 12
  20. The 6 Weeks Dating Fraud
  21. Everything but Sex
  22. The Four Man Plan: Week 13
  23. The Four Man Plan: Changing it Up
  24. The Four Man Plan: Week 14
  25. Dating Lesson: Hold Off on Sex, It’s Not a Package Deal
  26. The Four Man Plan: Week 15
  27. Venturing Outside the Attraction Range
  28. The Four Man Plan: Week 16
  29. The Freedom of Not Being Infatuated
  30. The Four Man Plan: Week 17
  31. Twisted Events of Socks Jock
  32. The Socks Jock
  33. The Four Man Plan: Week 18
  34. Blowing into Third Base with Socks Jock
  35. The Socks Jock 2
  36. A Dream of Closure
  37. The Socks Jock 3
  38. The Socks Jock 4 – Secrets
  39. The Ultimate Dating Goal is Another Challenge
  40. In a Relationship

I learned a lot about myself, what I wanted and what I didn’t want during this dating adventure, however, ultimately the socks jock and I broke-up.  I can’t say that was always diligent with the advice that the book dished out, but I tried my best.  Overall, it was a fun adventure and I’d recommend the book to anyone who is in the dating scene.

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