Socks Jock is selfish in bed and I’ve never had this problem before. I thought that it was innate for men to want to pleasure their women, especially in a society where this is something that men pride themselves on. I could be misinterpreting, but he has not gone down on me in months.
Here is the real kicker. We were in bed and he was manually pleasuring me and I thought it would help if I gave him some direction as to how I liked it. As soon as he got it right, I said “that’s perfect,” and he immediately stopped! And then he changed up what he was doing. What the fuck?
As of late, I have been really good at keeping him satisfied, despite my body being kind of out of whack because of being on the pill.
I’ve never in the past been a direct kind of girl and so I decided that I would be direct about it this time. I said I like it when he touches me slowly and he said that he doesn’t like doing it that way. I shot him a “well, what does it matter to you?” and he was definitely taken back by it. I was really proud of myself.
I also gave him grief for not being prepared and having a condom. I mean, how can he be so inconsiderate and neglecting towards my sexual needs? I really am glad that I was direct about these things because I think he realized that I have a backbone. Something that I probably did not have before in other relationships.
Sexual frustrations aside I am feeling really good about my behaviour and stance. I also feel good that he realized that this is important to me, which is very unlike the response that my ex-boyfriend would have given me. Outside of bed he has been really good to me so I’ll see how things progress.